As I commence my yearly reflection, I am convicted of my expectation of perfection from those I love. Subconsciously we expect those we love to somehow always do right by us. As we go into the new year, I urge you all to look inwards, To make room for self improvement and better relationships When someone […]
by Anari Sam Jaja (ASJ) for May 2024, GO Lifestyle Magazine – The African Edit The Importance of Language: I am of the belief that one of mankind’s greatest power is the ability to comprehend. Comprehension is simply one’s ability to acquire knowledge or information, to critically understand the meaning and importance of that information […]
The first step in making Nigeria and by extension Africa great AGAIN! is by unlearning several thing we were thought that made us psychological slaves. We need to unlearn and start disbelieving the lies. We must start asking questions and start learning who we are as a people and the innovative steps we need to […]
The quality of information one has often determines how far one goes in life. Information is not solely the possession of formal education but also the informal, which you get from studying the patterns and principles of life amongst other. Information on; knowledge of history to by indigenous people, Philosophy/ Principles of various aspects of […]
People often ask if I’m a feminist like it’s a tag to know how to categorize you. When asked by some men I can literarily feel their eagerness to judge my ability to be a submissive wife, When asked by women is a mixed reaction. Some judge your ability to be submissive while others judge you loyalty to the […]
END OF A DECADE This text was written on the 31st of December 2019, however editing and publishing was delayed until now. At exactly the same time every year (a day before the new year), I am inspired to give an audit report of the previous year, all the lesson I’ve learnt, things I’m still […]
Life sometimes can really feel like a lot.It is so true that when we sit back to think things through, we find that we have so much to be grateful to God for. Still, sometimes even in the midst of all the goodness, we have to face certain realities that threaten our joy. There are […]
Hi Royals! it has been a very challenging couple of weeks for my writing, having expirienced the famous “writer’s block”. Thank God I am back now with lots of positive emotions for my exquisite audience. For the longest time it has been in my heart to write on this topic, but for some strange reasons […]
Recently I meet someone that got me thinking about how much effort I put into not wanting to be single. Over time I have come to understand that the Ideology of being single for a young adult especially female in Nigeria seems almost like a taboo. “Are you in a relationship?” “No” “Why?” Apparently there […]
Wow Wow Wow! it is the last day of the year 2017 and this year has been very eventful for me. so much has happened this year in my life most especially this last quarter, that as I wake up this morning and go through the events of this year, I can only be grateful […]