As I commence my yearly reflection, I am convicted of my expectation of perfection from those I love. Subconsciously we expect those we love to somehow always do right by us. As we go into the new year, I urge you all to look inwards, To make room for self improvement and better relationships When someone […]
Dear Diamonds, When I got the news of your graduation, my heart was filled with so much joy and excitement for what the great possibilities the future holds. I began to reminisce on my own personal experiences embarking on the same journey you are currently on; which is transitioning from high school to the life […]
People often ask if I’m a feminist like it’s a tag to know how to categorize you. When asked by some men I can literarily feel their eagerness to judge my ability to be a submissive wife, When asked by women is a mixed reaction. Some judge your ability to be submissive while others judge you loyalty to the […]
So it’s a man’s world? How odd to hear Yet seemingly so So it’s a man’s world? She works in fear Sometimes afraid to say no But it’s God’s world To succeed she dares And fashionably so Indeed It’s God’s world To all he holds dear And the skies for all to soar So it […]
END OF A DECADE This text was written on the 31st of December 2019, however editing and publishing was delayed until now. At exactly the same time every year (a day before the new year), I am inspired to give an audit report of the previous year, all the lesson I’ve learnt, things I’m still […]
2018 feels just like yesterday, the year did run fast and just like I did on the 31st morning of 2017, today I woke up reflecting on the past year. I even went through the cross over post “End of A chapter” reflecting on how I applied the lessons I learnt form the year before […]
Recently I meet someone that got me thinking about how much effort I put into not wanting to be single. Over time I have come to understand that the Ideology of being single for a young adult especially female in Nigeria seems almost like a taboo. “Are you in a relationship?” “No” “Why?” Apparently there […]
Wow Wow Wow! it is the last day of the year 2017 and this year has been very eventful for me. so much has happened this year in my life most especially this last quarter, that as I wake up this morning and go through the events of this year, I can only be grateful […]
While working towards being the best possible versions of ourselves. It is very important for us to periodically conduct what is called a Personal Audit: Take time out to honestly reflect on where we have been, where we are now and where we want to be. This is something I have been trying to do over […]
Hi my love birds, I’ve been away for a while due to recent developments taking place in my life. I just finished my National Youth service, and started my program at the Nigerian Law School. I also started a fashion business called ASJ Mode. While building my educational and working life, my emotional life has […]